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Be the Chooser

take charge of your love life

You’re smart, successful, and an action taker. You want that forever relationship. The one that feels NATURAL and EASY. Just RIGHT.

But you are tired of dating commitment-phobes, emotionally unavailable types, casual hookups, people you have to rescue, or no one you can take seriously.

You’re beginning to doubt your… *date-ability*.

WORST OF ALL…DO Any of THESE SOUND FAMILIAR?

 
  • You are constantly worried about being perfect for someone to like you
  • You change yourself to fit into a mold so that others will want you
  • You prioritize the needs of others over your own needs
  • You struggle with fully accepting and loving yourself 100%
  • You having a crippling fear of rejection so you do not put yourself out there
  • You struggle with expressing your authentic feelings to the people you are dating
  • Or maybe you just have not dated for awhile and have no idea where to start
If you answered YES to any of these statements, you must change your unconscious thinking in order to change your results.

The truth is a lot of dating issues that make people feel like they are not good enough come from a person’s family of origin and childhood or past experiences.

People tend to pick partners who do not meet their needs or stay stuck when they have not healed from their own unconscious false programming. 

In my Conscious Dating programs, I help singles heal false programming about relationships that is preventing them from moving forward in their love life. 

With my support singles learn how to rewrite their unhealthy limiting beliefs and identify what a GOOD relationship looks like specifically for them so they can find true everlasting love.

 I’m here for YOU and can definitely help. In fact, I’d LOVE to.

If you’re ready to invest in yourself, let me help YOU find lasting love by making CONSCIOUS DATING choices TODAY. 

 

Schedule your FREE Relationship Readiness Review with me. NOW.

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About Me

Meet Dating Coach,
AMIE Leadingham

Once upon a time, I was a struggling single too. Through a new approach called CONSCIOUS DATING I finally found the love of my life.

Since then, I’ve helped countless singles (just like YOU) do the same. I’m a Master Certified Relationship Coach, Dating Coach, an Online Dating Expert, an Author, and grateful that I was named one of *LA’s Best Dating Coaches* by DatingAdvice.com and Datzie.

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Conscious Dating Coaching Programs

I have designed three different LIVE virtual Conscious Dating Programs just for YOU. Click the button below to check out my One-on-One Dating Coach experience, Path to Love Group Coaching Program, and my popular class on How to Conquer Online Dating and Safely Find Love!

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ONLINE DATING

CONQUER ONLINE DATING & FIND LOVE: An easy step-by-step program that shows you my top hacks to attracting more quality matches FAST, using a proven method to help you find love online.

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GROUP DATING COACHING

GROUP DATING COACHING: Choose from e-learning or a LIVE Zoom group coaching experience. I will support you with like-minded singles to find lasting love by applying the proven Conscious Dating methodology.

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PRIVATE DATING COACHING

PRIVATE COACHING EXPERIENCE: As your dating coach, I will personally support you through the Conscious Dating journey, help you personally with online / in-person dating to find your soulmate in the most private way. 

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“I can highly recommend Amie as a relationship and dating coach! She helped me overcome my internal blocks to love and helped me to acknowledge my feeling more in all relationships. The work she did with me was instrumental in helping me stay grounded. Fast forward 2 years I am happily married!"
Amie's married client
Aideen Ni Riada
"When I decided to jump back in the online dating pool, I was determined to not repeat the same mistakes. My challenge was to find clarity about my best self, make me the priority and crystalize who would best compliment my ideal life. Amie’s dating coaching is laser focused approach is honest yet gentle as we discovered what’s really going on and go deep into a vulnerable place resulting in tremendous growth and enlightenment. By working her proven process, I attracted a wonderful life partner and together, we’re co-creating a new, more meaningful level of love like I’ve never known before! My happiness and gratitude overflows. Thank you Amie!"
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Teri Bond
“I have learned so much from Amie as my dating coach and our sessions. She was able to tap into my negative beliefs that were blocking me from being in a healthy relationship. It was more than just dating advice, it was helping me to get out of my own way and be the best version of me I can be. I know now that I am the chooser and I have standards and framework that finally helped me find the relationship I was deserving of!”
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Dr. Sasa
“I can highly recommend Amie as a relationship and dating coach! She helped me overcome my internal blocks to love and helped me to acknowledge my feeling more in all relationships. The work she did with me was instrumental in helping me stay grounded. Fast forward 2 years I am happily married!"
Amie's married client
Aideen Ni Riada
"When I decided to jump back in the online dating pool, I was determined to not repeat the same mistakes. My challenge was to find clarity about my best self, make me the priority and crystalize who would best compliment my ideal life. Amie’s dating coaching is laser focused approach is honest yet gentle as we discovered what’s really going on and go deep into a vulnerable place resulting in tremendous growth and enlightenment. By working her proven process, I attracted a wonderful life partner and together, we’re co-creating a new, more meaningful level of love like I’ve never known before! My happiness and gratitude overflows. Thank you Amie!"
Teri Testimonial
Teri Bond
“I have learned so much from Amie as my dating coach and our sessions. She was able to tap into my negative beliefs that were blocking me from being in a healthy relationship. It was more than just dating advice, it was helping me to get out of my own way and be the best version of me I can be. I know now that I am the chooser and I have standards and framework that finally helped me find the relationship I was deserving of!”
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Dr. Sasa
“I can highly recommend Amie as a relationship and dating coach! She helped me overcome my internal blocks to love and helped me to acknowledge my feeling more in all relationships. The work she did with me was instrumental in helping me stay grounded. Fast forward 2 years I am happily married!"
Amie's married client
Aideen Ni Riada

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Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

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I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

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I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

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